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    Dating Apps. *update THE END 5/1/2023… One year later

    Last thoughts? Stick to the guys that are kind. Kind guys are a big deal. Safe guys are even better. Take mixed signals as a no. You’re worth more. Putting in all of the emotional legwork for another grown ass adult will break you. As a giver you gotta set pretty firm boundaries. God knows the takers will continue to drain you until you do. Good luck out there 🙃🤡 ⚫️⚫️⚫️⚫️⚫️ What the hell. until next time, ~A **UPDATE** (1/12/2022) Because full transparency is kind of my thing, I feel obligated to write about how this online dating experience has been unfolding for me…it’s going… surprisingly well. In a huge…

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    I Just Wing It

    ‘How do you do it? How are you still so strong after everything you’ve been through?’ I get asked this question a lot. I even ask myself sometimes too. My response? My usual go to answer is, ‘I have to be strong, there isn’t any other choice.’ That’s not actually true though. The reality is, I DO have a choice. I DO have an option, two actually. Give up on life, or … don’t. It’s that simple, right? My youngest child reminds me of this way more than I wish he had to. ‘You have 2 choices mom, but only one of those choices is an option.’ It’s his way…