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Hurt People, Hurt People
…at least that’s what everyone says, right? That somehow having your heart broken is a free pass to be a ginormous asshole? Guess what? It’s NOT. It’s a cop out and a blanket excuse to justify shit behavior. In theory, I get it. Going through really painful and traumatic experiences in life will alter you in ways you wouldn’t believe. Life can hurt like a bitch. There is no disputing that. BUT! When you get your heart ripped out, and are ass over elbow in your own misery, you have a choice. Hear me: You. have. A. choice. You don’t have to be a dick. You can, but why? You…
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Feelings
Does anyone else live with the assumption that they are constantly doing something wrong? That at any minute you’re going to be in trouble, or get yelled at and told how shitty you are? No one actually says that, but it’s how you feel. All.of.the.time?? Just me? Okay great 🙃 Feelings. So many damn feelings If you can relate, I’m sorry. I am sorry that someone in your life made you feel like everything you did, or said was the wrong thing. I’m sorry that you couldn’t find your voice when you needed to. I’m sorry you felt you had to be a peacemaker (or worse, a doormat) to hold…