I am starting Jiu -Jitsu. I don’t even know how to spell it. That took me too many minutes to figure out just now. For real. Ask any one (of the two people ) I’ve told, I can’t even pronounce it. It’s a mouthful of J’s – all I’m saying. I’ve been kicking mental healths ass for a while now and doing a pretty great job. Might as well learn how to kick physical ass as well… or more likely get my physical ass kicked, but whatever. Do I want to do this? I think so. Will I be good at it? Absolutely yes. Am I scared to venture out…

Last thoughts? Stick to the guys that are kind. Kind guys are a big deal. Safe guys are even better. Take mixed signals as a no. You’re worth more. Putting in all of the emotional legwork for another grown ass adult will break you. As a giver you gotta set pretty firm boundaries. God knows the takers will continue to drain you until you do. Good luck out there 🙃🤡 ⚫️⚫️⚫️⚫️⚫️ What the hell. until next time, ~A **UPDATE** (1/12/2022) Because full transparency is kind of my thing, I feel obligated to write about how this online dating experience has been unfolding for me…it’s going… surprisingly well. In a huge…