‘How do you do it? How are you still so strong after everything you’ve been through?’ I get asked this question a lot. I even ask myself sometimes too. My response? My usual go to answer is, ‘I have to be strong, there isn’t any other choice.’ That’s not actually true though. The reality is, I DO have a choice. I DO have an option, two actually. Give up on life, or … don’t. It’s that simple, right? My youngest child reminds me of this way more than I wish he had to. ‘You have 2 choices mom, but only one of those choices is an option.’ It’s his way…