…at least that’s what everyone says, right? That somehow having your heart broken is a free pass to be a ginormous asshole? Guess what? It’s NOT. It’s a cop out and a blanket excuse to justify shit behavior. In theory, I get it. Going through really painful and traumatic experiences in life will alter you in ways you wouldn’t believe. Life can hurt like a bitch. There is no disputing that. BUT! When you get your heart ripped out, and are ass over elbow in your own misery, you have a choice. Hear me: You. have. A. choice. You don’t have to be a dick. You can, but why? You…